Hi There,
Go to preferences under studio one and click on the Advanced Tab, underneath that click on the Console Tab.
In those selections you will see Audio Track monitoring follows record and Instrument track follows record. uncheck those, hit Apply and ok and they should not arm when you click on them.
In order for this to work on an audio track you would need that track to be routed to an input so the record button can be armed.
Hope this helps.