Hi Jacob,
Before I begin, let me make it clear I am not "trolling as the grammar police". I am sincere in my comments.
So here is the issue for me in trying to understand your question. You do a fair amount of typing but use no punctuation marks to indicate the end of one sentence and the beginning of the next one. Quite honestly, it makes your issue almost impossible to understand because your entire post is one "run-on sentence".
Now no one is saying our English usage must be perfect to post questions, but it should be at least good enough for readers to understand. So if I might make this suggestion, please edit your original post and breakdown your "run-on sentence" into a series of smaller sentences (being sure you use periods at the end of each sentence to set it off from the next one.) Do not just keep adding "and" between clauses. Clearly stop one sentence and begin a new one when necessary.
I'm quite sure you will begin getting technical replies as soon as the forum members can understand exactly what your issue is. Forum members cannot begin making suggestions to solve your issue if they cannot understand your problem statement in the first place.
Again, I am not criticizing you. I am only saying that as written (without reasonably proper punctuation) your issue is extremely difficult to understand.